Few activities can be as stimulating as bondage. Whether being the one in control or feeling restrained, bondage can be an incredibly exciting experience. It's essential to adhere to the rules while engaging in bondage for it to be safe and enjoyable. To help beginners get off to a good start, I've created a guide outlining the best positions for male and female bondage. Our sex doll torso allows you to practice various Bondage Positions. Enjoy!
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Best Bondage Positions For Beginners:
These easy-to-follow beginner bondage positions are ideal for those new to the joys of both restraint and submission. Nonetheless, it is still essential to educate yourself on safety tips to guarantee you are only buying from reliable vendors, and that the devices you use are of a high quality. To get the most out of your experience, invest as much as you can in quality merchandise. Now, let's dive into my top bondage ideas!
Crab Tie
Crab Tie is a great position for seasoned bondage fans and newbies alike, providing restrained partners with both an erotic level of restriction and a degree of mobility. It's also great for mutual oral pleasure. However, bondage products designed specifically for this position can be difficult to find and expensive to buy. An alternative is self-adhesive bandages, which can be wrapped around thighs, wrists, or elsewhere. The great thing about these is that they won't ever be too tight, reducing the risk of cutting off circulation. Nonetheless, be mindful when applying them.
How To Do It:
The Crab Tie is straightforward to get into and out of for when an emergency may arise. Those engaging in the bondage tie have the freedom to start with either binding the wrists to the ankles or elbows to the knees. One must be mindful to not tie the restraints tightly, as it could cause harm to the wrists, elbows, and knees. One way to gauge the appropriate amount of tension is by ensuring that there is enough space for a pinky finger to fit between the body part and whatever is being used to tie.
This guide offers a comprehensive overview of the steps necessary to perform Crab Tie.
Secure the left elbow to the left knee, ensuring that the subject is comfortable and can answer queries. If not, immediately release them.Link the left wrist to the left ankle to complete the Crab Tie.To carry out the Spread Eagle, bind the right side analogously.The Spread Eagle is an enduring classic due to its outstanding access to the bound person’s private areas. In particular, it offers unobstructed access to their breasts and genitalia.
Spread Eagle Position
Using the Spread Eagle bondage position has proven effective in immobility, making it a much-loved technique. When using it, prioritize safety and keep emergency shears ready, as they can easily cut through clothing without damaging the skin. This will enable you to remove them from the scene instantaneously in an emergency.
How To Do It:
To get into the Spread Eagle position, restrain one wrist and the same-side ankle first; the person can then use their free hand to self-release if needed. Next, immobilize the other ankle and then the opposite wrist. Always keep an eye on the bound person and check in regularly to ensure their safety; consent must also be secured prior to any sensory or breast play.
Pro Tip: An under-the-bed restraint system is recommended for the Spread Eagle position, and experimentation with other variations, such as vertical Spread Eagle or specialized bondage equipment like the St. Andrew's Cross, can lead to exciting new discoveries.
Chair Bondage
Ensure absolute physical immobilization with this unique and erotic Chair Bondage position - perfect for chest and breast play, no matter how experienced the user. It guarantees a safe and comfortable experience every time.
Chair Bondage Position
This position is perfect for nipple play, offering your partner no way to escape the pleasure as they squirm and arch their back. With the Chair Bondage position, the recipient is in a seated position, making it even more thrilling. I strongly suggest utilizing it with a remote-controlled sex toy.
How To Do It:
Secure a robust, immobile chair for your partner. Chairs with wheels can be hazardous and removable seats can come unfastened, diminishing the pleasure and comfort of the activity. Once secure, bind their ankles then follow with their thighs and waist. Pay attention to your partner's needs and release if it becomes too tight, causes discomfort, or leads to numbness. Next, tie their chest and bind their wrists behind them. Wall Bound is a tantalizing and attractive move, but takes more effort and preparation for optimal results.
Wall Bound Bondage Position
The chest is fully exposed when bound, making it a popular choice for those into nipple-play scenes. It is also a favorite among those seeking a submissive experience within established boundaries. Additionally, since this can be a difficult position to get into, one should never force someone into it - mobility and joint issues are a consideration. Finally, if someone can stand for an extended period, one should make sure to clear the area of any potential hazards, and place pillows to keep them safe in case they topple over. All in all, safety is of utmost importance when engaging in bondage play.
How To Do It:
Once potential hazards are eliminated and a comfortable cushion is arranged, it’s time to begin the Wall Bound position. This requires minimal bondage points, just tie your partner's wrists behind them. Although it sounds easy, refrain from tying them to an upright or the wall – if their knees suddenly buckle, it could lead to serious injury. Enjoy all of the bondage fun, but always exercise caution.
Wide Open/ The Mark
The Wide Open/The Mark is a fascinating bondage position for experienced and inexperienced players alike—although extra caution is advised for those who are not yet practiced. It provides complete access to all exposed areas, making it a preferred position for photographers and is favored in many BDSM fetish websites. With a bit of extra care and attention to details, those who try this position will understand why it is so universally acclaimed.
How To Do It:
Wide Open/The Mark may not be comfortable for everyone due to the level of limberness needed; try some stretching exercises to make it easier. Legs can be raised a bit, not pulled too far back, for pleasure. Gently bind ankles once legs are almost brought up to shoulders. If partner is comfortable, tie or cuff wrists or arms to lower calves. To protect their safety, be ready to release them at any moment; thus, a gag is not recommended. Check out more handcuff sex positions here.
