Despite its sometimes undeserved reputation, doggy style can be a highly pleasurable and rewarding sexual position for vagina owners. With the proper technique and assistance of sex doll torso toys, doggy style can lead to explosive, unforgettable orgasms. Although it does not promote close physical contact and can be taxing on the arms and legs, the effort can be more than worth it!
Achieving the deepest penetration attainable is possible in this position,affirms Ava Cadell, PhD, a clinical sexologist, AASECT-certified sex counselor, and author of Neuroloveology. Additionally, certain individuals can find the basic doggy style - inspired by the way dogs mate - to be mentally stimulating.
On the one side, Nan Wise - a psychotherapist, sex therapist, and author of Why Good Sex Matters - states that the lack of eye contact can make it simpler to reach climax. On the other, the partner being penetrated might prefer to feel in control, a possible gateway to exploring BDSM and other kinkier sex acts.
If you're unconvinced by doggy style, take note: There are steps you can take to make it more pleasurable than any other sexual position. Nonetheless, let's begin by covering the fundamentals...
What Does Traditional Doggy Style Look Like?
Classic doggy style involves one individual in a position on all fours, while the other partner kneels and enters them from behind using their penis or a strap-on, according to Wise.
Other stimulating variations include lying on your stomach, allowing your partner to enter you from behind (explore further below), as well as making adjustments to your leg and arm positions for variety. Archery isn't just for dogs; you have control over how this position plays out, so get ready to have a great time, with the following advice:
1.Begin with foreplay.
Before trying doggy style sex doll, ensure your body is prepared. As it's a deep and intense position, more often than not requiring longer foreplay if your partner is well-endowed, Cadell recommends allocating time for the task. This way, your body is adequately excited and ready for the desired activity.
For optimal arousal, dedicate 10-20 minutes to foreplay, such as exploring erogenous zones and engaging in stimulating conversation or clothing.
2. Get vertical.
The traditional doggy posture (on all fours) can provide pleasure for a while, yet soon your knees will begin to hurt. Many women have complained of having sore knees, or that it affects their back or neck,explains Cadell. Avoid this while still enjoying the perks of rear entry sex by standing instead. Simply stand up and lean forward lightly on a wall, or bend over a table or desk.
3. Or lie (all the way) down.
Tired of working on all fours? Consider lying prone, with or without a cushion under your pelvis (but make sure to have one under your head for comfort). Similar to this:
4. Leave the bedroom.
This doggy style variation offers versatility, as it requires no bed to perform. Spice things up in the shower or on a staircase, or position yourself over the kitchen counter--even in a larger automobile.
5. Lather up with lube.
Lube improves sexual experiences in the same way honey mustard enhances the flavor of turkey sandwiches, maximizing wetness and quality.
Goody Howard, a Texas-based sexologist and sex educator, notes that few bodies create enough natural lubrication to keep penetration pleasurable for the duration of intercourse.To rectify this, applying store-bought lube to one's genital area can help maximize pleasure—even over extended sessions. Friction, chafing, and discomfort can all be avoided!
6. Throw in a pillow.
Traditional doggy doesn't always result in an orgasm. To increase your chances of achieving the big O, get into the classic doggy style position and place a wedge pillow (or several firm pillows) under your belly to add external pressure in the abdomen and pelvis area—this can intensify the pleasurable sensations experienced during sex.
Lastly, maintain your hip elevation and rest your head and arms on the bed. As Wise notes, [It's] almost like a child’s pose,(akin to Leap Frog, yet with a soothing sensation from the pillow's pressure).
7.Maximize your experiences with sex furniture.
Doggy style can exhaust your arms and legs quickly. However, it can be difficult to feel pleasure if your muscles are sore or tired, according to Howard. Ignoring a muscle cramp does not necessarily allow you to focus wholly on the sensations.
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8. Pay attention to your position.
Arch your back slightly, like transitioning from cat to cow in yoga. This adjustment of angle can help your partner make contact to your G-spot more effectively.
9. Bring in nipple play.
Citing Cadell, doggy position is ideal for those who enjoy breast stimulation. Involve your partner by having them place their hands on your chest and direct them on how you wish to be touched with your hands over theirs -- an intimate demonstration, if you will.
10.Experiment with nipple clamps.
Howard recommends trying out nipple clamps for those seeking consistent pressure on their nipples and a way for a partner to interact with them from behind.
Gently place the pair on your nipples during intimate moments, and then take them off near your climax. Feel the rush of blood flood back into your chest as you reach the pinnacle of pleasure.
11. Find your closeup.
Position yourself in front of the mirror to check out each other's profile, according to Sadie Allison, DHS, author of The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris. Experiment with new poses, like tossing your hair or arching your back, for a more alluring look.
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12. Try an unconventional prop.
No extra materials are needed, according to Wise. However, Wise recommends procuring a yoga strap to bring to the bedroom, as it is the simplest, most readily available, and most widespread bedroom tool,they say.
Secure the strap around your waist for the supportive sensation provided by pillows, then allow your partner to pull on it while they penetrate you from the back. (Not got one? Substitute a long silk tie or a comparable item.) This grants your partner a bit more power for thrusting, plus it introduces an exciting, faux bondage dynamic.
13. Give yourself a hand.
Use your fingers to apply stimulation to your clitoris as your partner thrusts, enhancing the intensity of your shared climax. This approach increases the probability of orgasm during doggy-style, according to Allison.
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14. Grab a vibrator.
This is sound counsel applicable to many bedroom activities. Unlike positions like missionary, where room is limited, doggy style allows you to utilize the posture and employ a larger massager, such as a wand vibrator,Howard explains.
Wands make it easy to provide clitoral stimulation while also transferring the rumbly vibration to the penetrative partner. With wands, the vibration is more intense than that of bullet vibrators, resulting in a more pleasurable experience.
Howard suggests a wand vibrator with an angled head, such as the Lelo Smart Wand or the Lulu 8 Wand, to accommodate people with limited mobility. The L-shape allows for easier access to one's body parts,Howard explains.
15. Pull out the vibrating cock ring.
For those who want to add some intensity to doggy style, this vibrating cock ring could be a great option or an interesting experiment.
Generally, cock rings restrict circulation in the penis, allowing your companion to maintain a stiffer erection for a more extended period. Vibrating cock rings consist of a stimulating vibe on the exterior of the band, which is adjustable either up or down. (FYI: Vibrating cock rings can be used on dildos too!)
Howard recommends positioning the vibrating element downwards to stimulate both your partner's scrotum (if present) and your clitoris. This creates a pleasurable sensation for both partners with each thrust. Enjoy!
16. Be smart about surfaces.
Knee rugburn and slip-and-slide satin sheets can take the sexiness out of doggy-style. Ramp up the pleasure with a pillow under your knees or something sturdy to grip when your partner moves. For even more fun, create some friction by using throw blankets beneath your hands and knees.
17. Bring in butt play.
Doggy style is a convenient position for transitioning from vaginal intercourse to anal intercourse, according to Cadell. Ensure you use a fresh condom to prevent infection, and for first-time participants, use ample lubricant and progress gradually.
18. Wear a butt plug.
Inserting a butt plug can liven up vaginal penetration and add an extra layer of stimulation for those interested in exploring anal play.
19. Use anal beads.
Butt plugs are designed to stay in place and produce pleasurable sensations. It is the anal opening and not the anus that contains the highest density of nerve endings. As Howard points out, vibration is necessary to stimulate those nerves once the plug is already inserted.
But anal beads offer ongoing stimulation because they can be inserted and removed multiple times, according to experts.
Plus, doggy style is optimal for utilizing this anal accessory, because it allows the penetrator to easily insert and remove the string during intercourse,she explains. (Of course, with lubricant!)
20. Explore double penetration.
Butt plugs offer an easy starting point for anal exploration, whereas anal beads are better suited for the more advanced user. Double-penetration with a penis and dildo, or two dildos, is the most complex level of anal play.
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