There are certain sex acts that individuals may find to be more pleasurable than others. For some males, receiving a blowjob is their preferred non-intercourse act, even above penetrative sex. However, the dynamics of a blowjob can vary depending on personal preferences and whether one enjoys being in control or being dominated. In all cases, communication and mutual willingness are key for a satisfying experience. PopTorso carries sex torso in a variety of styles and styles, and our oral sex dolls are perfect for you to try out different blowjob sex positions.
For optimum pleasure, our guide to the top fellatio positions was curated with input from three leading experts in the field. Whether you have limited time and space, or are open to experimenting with various techniques, we have something to suit every couple's preference.
How Altering Position Impacts a Blowjob
If you have only relied on pornography to learn about blowjobs, your understanding of the many possible positions may be limited. While mainstream pornography often shows the receiver standing and the giver kneeling, the possibilities for different positions are only limited by your imagination and physical capabilities.
When experimenting with different positions, one should keep in mind that it can significantly alter the experience of giving and receiving a blowjob. Therefore, it is advised to try out various positions to enhance the overall sensation.
Explore Different Blowjob Positions for Maximum Control and Pleasure
According to Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, an expert in sexual pleasure and host of the Drive Him Wild With Pleasure Video Course, changing positions during a blowjob can shift the level of control between partners. While some may prefer to guide their partner's movements through gentle pressure on the head, others may enjoy maintaining control. Regardless, placing hands on the head can add an element of power to the experience. Also, standing positions offer a chance for the receiver to take control, such as with a standing blowjob where their hands can rest on the giver's head.
According to Carlee Ranger, always obtain consent before moving your partner's head during a blowjob. Even subtle gestures such as holding their head still or controlling their movements can indicate a power dynamic. For a more intense experience, consider face-f*cking, where you hold your partner's head at crotch level and penetrate their mouth. This can be done while standing, kneeling, or with your partner lying down.
Instruct your partner to lie on their back and position their head at the edge of the bed, couch, table, or wherever you will be receiving a blowjob. Choose a location that will align their head with your pelvis to replicate the sensation of penetrative sex. For those interested in erotic choking or breath play, make sure to have a discussion beforehand to establish boundaries and a safe gesture that can be used to immediately stop the activity. This position offers access to the rest of their body for further touch and attention. Whether you're fully penetrating their throat or playing a more active role, it's crucial to have clear communication and consent throughout the experience. Remember, the person receiving oral should always feel safe and in control.
For men who prefer a more dominant role during oral sex, a perpendicular blowjob is a great alternative. This involves the giver kneeling down at a 90-degree angle to the receiver, allowing the receiver to finger them while receiving the blowjob. While not a completely equal give-and-take situation like a 69, it does give the receiver an active role and the opportunity to watch the blowjob, unlike in a 69.
Embrace Your Submissive Side with These Bold Blowjob Positions!
For those who prefer a submissive role, what would your ideal blowjob be? Per O’Reilly, a 69-style position where your partner places their buttocks in your face (for stimulation or domination) can be highly enjoyable for more submissive men. To experience this, lay on your back and have your partner straddle you while their buttocks are in your face. You will likely enjoy the feeling of submission and being smothered in this position. Another option, according to Lords, is to add a bit of BDSM kinkiness by allowing yourself to be restrained.
According to the perspective of a bondage or BDSM expert, allowing yourself to be bound and immobile can lead to a feeling of submissiveness. In addition to being tied up, there are other ways to feel submissive such as standing still while your partner goes down on you or being on your knees while your partner stands. By keeping your hands behind your back or at your side, you are giving up control of the situation.
Discover a Variety of Furtive/Quickie Blowjob Positions
In certain situations, public or semi-public locations can provide the perfect setting for an expertly performed blowjob. These scenarios may require some adjustments in positioning, as noted by O’Reilly: "If discretion is key, incorporating your hands into the blowjob can add more pressure and a smoother rhythm." The traditional standing or knee
ling position is ideal for a quick and easy encounter, as most men can easily unzip or lower their pants without needing to undress completely. According to Lords, being on your knees in a cramped space can add an element of excitement and secrecy to the experience. Whether it's hiding in a closet or slipping into a bathroom stall, squeezing into a confined area can make for a memorable moment.
For an alternative, sitting can also be beneficial for both partners, especially while in a car or at a movie theater. According to O'Reilly, avoid lying on your back as this may require your partner to engage their core in order to use their hands. It is more effective to sit against the headboard or in a chair, and even better to stand next to a bed or chair to allow your partner to use both hands and mouth.
Blowjob Techniques for Optimal Time and Space Availability
When not rushed or with nowhere to go, couples can enjoy a fulfilling mutual experience by using the classic position of the receiver lying on their back while their partner takes the lead. This provides an opportunity for the receiver to relax and engage with their partner without needing to actively participate. For added pleasure, the receiver can also hold their partner's head or engage in nipple play.
Consider trying the sideways 69 as another option for a slower paced experience. By facing each other on your sides instead of one partner being on top, you have the freedom to switch positions and control the pace as needed. This position allows for flexibility and encourages a more relaxed and enjoyable experience for both partners. According to experts, the sideways 69 is a popular choice for couples looking for a comfortable and versatile position.
